Sunday, September 29, 2013

Donald Scott 1829 - 1892

“Do you know me Dan?” and he nodded his head and that was a couple of seconds before his last.  He died on the 11 June just at twelve O’clock".  
Mary Ann "Polly" Scott - 6 July 1892

Excerpt of Last Will and Testament of Donald "Dan" Scott of Kiata East - dated 11th June 1892
He died that same day
Source:  www.prov.gov.au

Excerpt of Death Record of Donald Scott - 11th June 1892
Source:  www.bdm.vic.gov.au

The first page of a letter written by Mary Ann "Polly" Scott about the death of her husband, Donald  "Dan" Scott.  Transcribed below. 




































Kiata East July 6th 1892 
"My Dear Sisters and Brothers,
I take my pen in hand to write these few lines to you with a heart full of sadness for I have lost your Brother and my all.  Oh my Dear sisters you might think like I used to, that I could feel what others feel when they were separated but I could not tell you the blank that falls one’s life for we lived a very happy life together and the blow came very hard to bear. 
My Dear Sisters, my poor husband has been failing for the past eight months but he did not think he was bad enough to get a doctor’s advice but I took it upon myself to get the doctor up to him for he said “I can eat and drink well and at my time in life it is better to be thin than fat”, but I did not feel satisfied but the doctor could do nothing for it.  Was the miner’s chronic bronchitis and Pleurisy that was the matter with him.  The doctor gave me no hope of him ever being strong again but that he might live for years or go any time but that he would never work again but the pain was very severe from Wednesday till Friday and he told me that it was all over with him but I tried to do as the doctor told me, to keep his spirits up.  You will know how hard it was for me.  He took everything I gave him and I thought he was going to rally but the cough was gone and I heard him ask the doctor to give him something to ease the cough and he told him that it would be worse for him so I sent for the doctor again and he told him there was no hope for him.  He told him that he knew from the first but told my mother and them to keep it from me.  He said when my mother asked him if he knew who to look to for strength, he said yes mother but don’t let Polly know.  
If it was not for the happiness of knowing that he went home safely and that he went so quiet as a child.  I was with him to the last and he knew us all dear sister and the last drink my mother gave him, she asked him “Do you know me Dan?” and he nodded his head and that was a couple of seconds before his last.  He died on the 11 June just at twelve O’clock.  I send you this so that you will see that I am trying to be the same as when he was here, for he used to say write the same as when I am here.  He did not like writing.  When we got our likeness taken he said they will see that we are both failing.  I wanted him to write but he was waiting till he heard from you, but we will have to leave the all wise maker will be done.  We will never see each other, but we can help each to bare the trials and bye & bye meet each other on the other side.
Dear Sisters I have 7 children now.  The last two are boys, baby is 6 months.  I have to struggle to keep them as we have had no crops for some time.  I think I will draw to a close with love to you all from us all.  I remain your loving sister.    M A Scott " 

Tom Scott,Eliza Scott, Elsie Scott, William Scott, Jane Scott and Christian Scott
Polly and Dan Scott with their family
Tom, Jane (front), Eliza, Elsie, Christian & William.

"When we got our likeness taken he said they will see that we are both failing".

Is this the "likeness" mentioned in the letter?  If so, then Polly would be pregnant with the "baby" referred to in the letter.   Sadly the baby, John Glass Scott, died 4 months after his father, also from bronchitis. 
Donald Scott was born on the of 10th December 1829 in Leith South, Scotland, the eldest child of tailor, Adam Bisset Scott and Catherine Glass.  Dan, as he was known, grew up in Leith South before emigrating to Australia in 1852 at age 23.

His family seems to have been reasonably wealthy, owning several properties in Leith, so it is unknown what prompted Dan to come to Australia.  Maybe it was the lure of the goldfields?  Dan spent many years mining until becoming a farmer.   He married Mary Ann (Polly) Warrick in Stawell, Victoria in 1877 at age 48 (not 45 as listed on the certificate) and soon after leased 300 acres of farm land at Kiata in 1879.   It seems that he was an unsuccessful farmer as there are many notices of arrears.

When Dan died in 1892 at age 63 (not 60 as listed in death record), he owed £272 to his father in law, William Warrick, and £113 to the National Bank of Australasia.  William Warrick and his son Frederick Warrick were executors of the estate of Donald Scott.  In 1897 they wrote to Donald's sister in Scotland requesting an advance of rental to prevent the banks foreclosing on the farm land.

"Nov 1st 1897
Dear Madam,
In the capacity of executors in the Estate of the late Donald Scott, we beg to inform you that owing to the failure of crops for the last two years, and the loss of stock during the last year, it has been necessary to mortgage the estate to a great extent, and as the present outlook is far from promising, it is scarcely likely that the interest on the mortgage which falls due next March, will be met out of the proceeds of this year's crop.  
We may also mention that there is a yearly rental of fifteen pounds which, however, will cease after another two years as the land will then become freehold.
Owing to the depreciation in the value of land in this district during the last few years, there is danger of foreclosure on the estate, if the interest mentioned about is not paid.
Our object in writing to you is to gain some information respecting the property in Scotland, and request you to send write to us as to the value of the property there at present and what is the yearly rental and if you have any money on hand collected from rents, if would be very acceptable to your late brother's widow and family as they have had a hard struggle to keep the wolf from the door.
During the last year they have lost seven cows and three horses, principally through starvation, which means a heavy loss, as the cows have been their main source of living not having had any grain for sale for the last two years so you can see by this that they cannot be in any other than straitened circumstances.
Hoping you will answer this at your earliest convenience.

We remain yours respectfully
William Warrick
Frederick John Warrick"
It seems that my Great Great Grandfather lived a very difficult and challenging (short) life.  As a young man he likely left Scotland dreaming of a better life and riches exceeding those of his family?  However it was not to be.  Did he regret coming to Australia?  Did he yearn to return to Scotland, where his siblings remained?

We will never know but I am glad that he made that decision as otherwise I would not be here!

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This weeks post has been inspired by Sepia Saturday.  The young boy, unwell in bed immediately reminded me of my Great Great Grandfather, who signed his Will on his death bed.  According to the letter, he had been sick in bed for some time prior to his death.

His Final signature 11th June 1892
Donald signed his Will on his death bed.

26 comments:

  1. The letters give a detailed insight into the lives of your grandfather and his family. It's sad, of course, but nevertheless the letters are treasures.

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    1. Yes it amazing how much you can glean from a couple of letters.

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  2. A most sad, and lovely bittersweet accounting, a love, to treasure forever.

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    1. The first letter is very heart felt and sad. That first sentence says it all!

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  3. What a sad story; it must have been devastating to receive such a letter.

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    1. I wonder about that. The letters were only recently located in the family bible. So I wonder if they were sent to Scotland? Or was the bible sent back to Australia? We can never be certain. But beautiful letters anyway!

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  4. How sad it all is. We have no idea what will happen when we make those decisions that turn out to be so momentous. The husband dead. The baby dead. The livestock starving. No crops. It doesn't get much worse and yet somebody made it since you are here!

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    1. Very insightful comments Kristin. Yes my great grandfather is William pictured on the right of the family photo.

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  5. I like Kristin's response. "Somebody made it since you are here!" Positive words for such a sad account. And yet in her letter, despite all, Polly says "we lived a very happy life together" so apparently there must have been some good times amidst the harsh.

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    1. Many farmers today will say it is a tough life but a good life that they wouldn't change. I suppose this applied in the past too!

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  6. What a heartbreaking letter. Thanks for sharing it with us. Great photo too. All the more meaningful now that we know the story.

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    1. I have used the family photo in other blogs but I hadn't put related it to the letter until I wrote this post.
      As a result of this post, my cousin sent me an email today, which gave me shivers and brought me to tears. It was a picture of his father (my uncle) when he was ill before he died. The resemblance was uncanny.

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  7. I think times were hard there as well as his home country, life was not easy

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    1. It seems that the family back in Scotland did quite well for themselves. One day I will get over there to find out more!

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  8. I wonder if the sister helped out at all - I hope so.
    I also wrote about an incorrect death record this week

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    1. Mary Ann stayed on the farm (which was worked by her brother and father) for many years so must have received the rental due?

      It wasn't until 1928 when all the properties in Scotland were sold and the proceeds disbursed.

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  9. A harrowing letter to have to write, but wonderful that it was kept by the family so that you still have it to read. Mary Ann must have been quite a lot younger than Dan if she was still having babies when he died. Did she live to bring them up, despite his comment that she was also failing? My husband's great grandfather died aged 44 of tuberculosis, leaving his wife with 10 children, the youngest of whom was only 3. Four years later she remarried a much younger man, who was actually a friend of her eldest son, presumably because she was in need of financial support.

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    1. It is quite amazing that the letters remained hidden in the family bible (held by my 2nd cousin) for over 100 years until being located a couple of years ago, so they are in an amazing condition.
      Donald was 25 years older than Polly. Polly lived for a further 42 years and was 80 when she died.

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  10. A sad and amazing family story. Good to hear of a present day survivor in the end.

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    1. Thanks Bob.

      Yes there were 6 of the 8 children survive.

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  11. Again, Sharon, you have shown us such a wonderful set of documents to illustrate your sad family story. There is something very special at actually touching a letter, written by an ancestor so long ago. . .

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    1. Thank you Sue. I found the letters in the family bible and scanned them, thinking that I would read them later when I had time to decipher them. When I got home, I started to read the first letter and you can imagine how I felt when I realised that it was my Great Great Grandmother telling of the death of my Great Great Grandfather. Not many people are lucky enough to have such wonderful memories.

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  12. What a sad, sad story. Our ancestors had it very hard.

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    1. Yes, Polly really put feeling and emotion into that letter. Well I can feel it anyway.

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  13. A tragic choice with its consequences, but he did get to meet his wife and have a family. Didn't leave them in the greatest of situations but it turned out for the best, eventually,
    if you got there.
    :)~
    HUGZ

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    1. Thank you for persevering and leaving a comment Bruno. I appreciate it.

      Many of the men in our family meet their wife later in life.

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