Monday, January 31, 2022

Hoarder? Collector? Keeper of Memories?

 Did you know that the days & dates in 1966, 1977, 2005, 2011, and 2022 align?  

My father recently located a number of old calendars.  I immediately put the 1972 calendar on the wall thinking that it matched this year (2022).  However, I turned the page today and realised that 1972 was a leap year!  So the calendar is only useful January and February in 2022!  And what are the chances, but I am missing the years that I could use!  Darn!

I shall keep the calendar on the wall until the end of February 2022

Around every corner in our home, is a different memory.  EVERYTHING on display in our home has a meaning or memory. 

No longer are collections hidden in the cupboard.  They are on display for our enjoyment.

For years the badges were in a container in the cupboard,
but they are now on display
The bookcase below is older than I am.  Mum always had medical encyclopedias in it. Now it contains World Book encyclopedias.  My inlaws invested in these encyclopedias in 1972 to assist my husband and his brother with their learning. 

I am extremely grateful to my cousin for giving me the beautiful ruby block butter dish.  It is EAP Glass which was produced from 1850 to 1914.  This one is estimated to be from 1894. I suspect that this may have been a 40th wedding anniversary gift, passed down through several generations.  Perhaps a gift from my Great Grandparents Ambrose and Mary Walker (nee Mottram) to my Great Great Grandparents Alexander and Ellen Walker (nee Rowe) who celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary on 20th July 1908.  Or was it a gift to Mary's parents, my Great Great Grandparents, Samuel and Elizabeth Mottram (nee Gourley), who celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary on 27th January 1915?

My father has made me two replicas of this bookcase for side tables in the loungeroom
Every time that I look at the pair of candelabra I think of a deceased friend, Bill Terhorst.   Bill was an engineer and very clever.  He learned blacksmith skills from one of his relatives and made two of these, with the assistance of my husband.  
The good luck charm was purchased in China while I was on a trip with my daughter.

Hand-made by Bill Terhorst.

The small tea-pot belonged to my Nanna.  Several of her grandchildren remember cups of tea being made in it.
The kettle with the green lid was always on our stove growing up.  The fruit bowl (full of knick knacks) belonged to my nanna also.

The tea tin was a container for cereal when we were children.
The canisters were purchased from Bendigo Pottery when we visited friends.
The coffee grinder belonged to my husband's parents (and is of German origin)
The scales were from my days as a bank teller before coin-counting became digital.

The crystal cabinet belonged to Great Grandma Walker and was given to me by another cousin for safekeeping.  It was one of the first things I saw when I walked in the front door of my grandparents.  Nanna always had jelly beans for us, hiding behind a picture on the crystal cabinet.

The dancing doll in the bottle is another beautiful memory of my nanna, who would wind it up for me over and over again when I was a little girl.

The above barometer is one of a large number of pigeon flying trophies. 
My father in law won the VHA Long Distance Average in 1977

The dining room is full of memories. These are only a few examples.
On our honeymoon, we were chased down the road by a vendor eager to sell his wares.  We ended up purchasing the hand-carved cobra walking stick for $5, to stop him from following us.
The ice bucket and trays are VHA pigeon racing trophies.
The cup was given to my parents upon my birth by the masonic lodge.
The crockery is part of a set that belonged to my maternal great grandmother, Mabel Pilgrim (nee Geyer), but it has been broken up and shared among the family.
The goblets belonged to my mother in law.  They were always on display in her wall unit

The purple lamp was used on the kitchen table by my grandmother prior to electricity.
The iron lamp was a wedding present to my Great Grandparents,  Ambrose and Mary Walker, from the bride's father, Samuel Mottram.
The copper picture brings back memories of my grandfather, Gordon Walker, as it was on the wall of my grandparents home when I was a child.
Just out of view is a picture from Disneyland, a scent lamp which a gift from past colleagues/friends, and an urn from a visit to Turkey.

The knitting machine and cupboard belonged to my maternal grandfather, Allan Scott, who purchased them when he returned from World War II, to make socks for the soldiers.
The piano accordion (in the case) was my mothers when she was a child.
The hat was from when my husband was in the army.
The handbag belonged to my mother-in-law.
Mum made the tablecloth with hobbytex

I have given you a small taste of our eclectic style.  Some may think that I am a hoarder.  Others with say that I am a collector.  But I consider myself to be the keeper of memories. I have a book of photographs of all the memorabilia, which includes a description of its origin.  If something happens to me, others will also know the significance.
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This post was inspired by Sepia Saturday 606.
It started with calendars but finished with memorabilia!
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21 comments:

  1. I love your phrase "Keeper of Memories". It fits your retention of lovely keepsakes perfectly. :) I, too, have memorabilia which I keep out in the open from a great grandfather's Civil War sword, to heirloom cream pitchers and sugar bowls I use, and my grandmother's knitting hamper which holds my current knitting project - and many other things in between. I used to have several fairly good-sized collections of things - clocks, oil lamps, elephants, candles, but 10 years ago when we were moving, I decided to keep only three of each collection. The only full collection I still have is of my Mary Engelbreit teapots and cups & saucers. They're not keepsakes, but I love them. I still sew on my grandmother's old Singer sewing machine, and store dishes in a dish cabinet my parents had when they were first married. My Mom's wedding gift cedar chest from my Dad sits at the foot of our bed. As you say, seeing them brings back warm memories!

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    1. I love this. You understand me :)
      Yes I have some collections too and got rid of some of the non family memorabilia collections when we moved states....but I have regretted letting go of a few things!

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  2. How nice that you can display all those historic family keepsakes. Almost like living in a museum. I guess it is a museum of your family life.

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    1. Not Yet. My Aunt's house was like a museum. I loved visiting her home. I once said that it must take a day to dust. She loved dusting day as it was filled with lovely memories.

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  3. Thanks for the tour! As a fellow Keeper of Memories, I can easily relate to the accumulation of mementos. And EVERY one of them has a story to tell, though usually not mine, but my dad's, or my grandmother's, or .... Maybe we should start a club to share these stories? :–}

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    1. It is good to have people who understand. My designer daughter is not so keen on our decorating style!

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  4. Those are such sweet memories, and you have little reminders of them!

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    1. Reminders in every room.....even the toilet! My grandmother's toilet paper doll with the message, "If you run out, please don't shout. Just lift me up and I shall help you out"

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  5. You have figured out such wonderful ways to display your ancestral ephemera. I have mine in a few spots around the house as well, which I think of as shrines to past generations. But I like the way you have integrated them into your regular household decor, giving me new ideas.

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  6. I am more of a "keeper of memories" than a collector (or hoarder) as well. I can get rid of things if needed but most of the things I have are connected with memories. (I suppose the older we get, the more likely that is - well, at least as long as our memory is still working!)

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  7. You have made such lovely displays of these treasures. You home does not look at all like the home of a hoarder! I feel like mine sometimes does. It is hard for me to part with items attached to my family. Many of them are not yet displayed. I like the idea of the book. I started writing blog posts about things I have, but I didn't get very far! Thanks for the tour!

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    1. Yes photos and description will make it easier for future generations (or when my memory fails me!), but this blog was to records some of the memories behind items, for future generations.

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  8. Fantastic and I love that you have recorded who things came from or what the significant memories are for you of your pieces! Kylie :-)

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  9. I completely agree.. we are the keepers of memories. I do wonder what will happen to them all after I'm gone...
    Beautiful keepsakes...

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    1. My Will includes a note that my preference is for family items (as per the book) are to remain in the family. If they are not wanted then I have requested that they are stored safely and securely for future generations. I hope that my kids pay attention :)

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  10. CONGRATULATIONS ! Your blog has been included in INTERESTING BLOGS in FRIDAY FOSSICKING at
    https://thatmomentintime-crissouli.blogspot.com/2022/02/friday-fossicking-4th-feb-2022.html
    Thank you, Chris

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  11. Thank you Sharon,
    The way you have displayed your memories has inspired me. I like the idea of having something in my will. My granddaughter often asks me about my treasures. I have written a little note, put it in a zip lock bag and placed with each item. Your idea of photos and story to go with is something I will do as well. Thank you for sharing some of your memories.
    Janice

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